Using Marriage Tips To Spruce Up Your Marketing

By | February 14, 2012

Valentine’s Day was a big event at our office this year. The door bell rang with deliveries of flowers at seemingly every other hour. The lunch room was filled with boxes of heart-shaped cookies. A few of the employees even wore bright red clothing to commemorate the occasion.

And yet, seeing all of these things caused me to think about marketing!

Specifically, I started to think about all of the things that people do improve their relationships, especially when they are married. And while that certainly is very important (if my wife is reading this, let me say “Honey, I love you!”), I also think that there are lessons marketers can take from those marriage tips to help them grow their business.

Making the Connection: Marriage and Marketing

Just because you are married, it doesn’t mean that you shut down and think that you set the dial at “coast.” You still need to stay on top of your relationship, work on it, build on it. Because you want your relationship to be the best it possibly can.

Building a relationship with a prospect should be looked at the same way. We should never just rest on our laurels or set the dial to “coast.” We need to keep things fresh and interesting. We need to let our prospects know we are here for the long haul.

Here are some ways you can translate suggestions made to better your marriage and use them to enrich your marketing:

  • Honesty is the best policy. Be 100% honest with your prospects.
  • Just as you should be honest, you should also respect your prospects. Respect their time. Respect their interests. Respect their feedback.
  • Be supportive. Let your prospects know that you are there for them. You don’t want to appear to be all about the deal and then you’re gone. And you don’t want to appear like you don’t care.
  • Share the good times and the bad times with your prospects. Every marketing message doesn’t have to be a happy-go-lucky story or catchy tagline. If you present yourself as “human” and less of a faceless corporate entity, you will find your prospects feel more emotionally attached.
  • Determine any issues or problems your prospects face and then try to solve them. Just like burying your head in the sand at home, if you ignore problems with your prospects, they won’t go away. In fact, they will get bigger. So tackle issues head on and communicate!
  • Listen to your prospects. Really listen. And then let them know you are listening by responding in a personal fashion.
  • Remember that prospects have bad days too. Don’t let that bad day set back your relationship. Be willing to forgive and move on.
  • Have a regular “date” when you contact your prospects to check up on them and see how things are going. Of course, don’t hesitate to make that “date” in person when you can. A cup of coffee or a lunch goes a long way in making a relationship grow stronger.
  • Have a good memory. Remember the anniversaries and the birthdays and acknowledge them. Make your prospects feel special.
  • Surprise your prospects with little things here and there. Discounts, specials, resource materials, etc. Think up ways you can give your prospects a little “pick me up” that will make them fall in love with your business.

I hope that you find these tips helpful!

Of course, there are certainly many other common marriage tips that could be applied to a marketing lesson. If you have one on your mind, I’d love to hear it! Please feel free to share it in the Comments section.

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3 thoughts on “Using Marriage Tips To Spruce Up Your Marketing

  1. Kevin Keane

    Good stuff John!

    Harvey Mackay has nuthin on you !

    I look forward to having dinner with you Sunday evening before the Vision 3 Summit.

    Barely more than a month now to the most high holy day in all of Christendom, just saying!

    I wonder what thematic analogies you can draft on 17 March 🙂


  2. kit hamilton

    Great post! One really big suggestion – don’t nag!

    To quote a recent white paper: “Brands used to be the ‘shouters’, but in this age brands must be prepared to do less shouting and more listening in order to give customers what they want.”

    The whole of the white paper this quote comes from aligns quite a bit with your thoughts here – and offers some other interesting insights – you may want to give it a look:

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